Selamat Menyambut Hari Raya Haji..

Raya...Raya...Raya... Salam aidiladha kepada semua.. Sekali lagi kita diberikan kesempatan oleh Allah SWT untuk merasainya tahun ini. Banyak yg sudah kita sama-sama lalui sepanjang tahun ini. Apakah rasanya pengorbanan kita yang paling besar telah kita lakukan sepanjang hayat kita. Aha bagi aku rasanya xde lg kot,, just pengorbanan kecik2 jep. Ntah napa raya korban tahun ni mcm xde rasa suasananya kt cni,, di opis xde yg bercerita sgt psl raya nih.. cite kje..kje..kje.. Muak dah aku dgr. Bagi aku kt cni xde mood raya pon.. Mmg la ni cuma raya haji jek tp sepatutnya kita sama2 excited nk raikannya sama mcm hari raya puasa malah sepatutnya lebih meriah. Tp ntah la kdg2 aku xfhm sgt org sekeliling aku nih.. xpe mngkin kt cni xrasa mood raya tuh tp kt kmpung nnti mngkin aku akan lebih merasainya kot. xsabar nk blk ptg ni.. kt sana mngkin akan lebih meriah.. Dikesempatan ni jgk aku nk ucapkan Selamat Menyambut Hari Raya Qurban kepada semua.. dan selamat beramal..

mY sToRy

It’s a quite long since the last time I wrote in this blog. Maybe I’m loosing the way how I want to share my story to the others out there. Today I’ve an idea to wrote some article about my true life. Surely you feel so lucky to hear it.. huhu, umm. Where should I start it. I spent most of my time in my late teens and early twenties on finding love, or so I thought at the time. In actuality I was seeking self-acceptance, approval and identity. I was deeply insecure and had a great fear of being alone. I jumped from relationship to relationship, all the while searching for myself. But the act of seeking self-worth through my external relationships took me further from that which I longed.

I’ve always been an ambitious person and in addition to my job, daily working from 8.30-5.30 on weekdays and have a good time with my family and friends in weekends. But whenever I found myself in a relationship, I would drop everything that was important to me and would focus exclusively on the person I was dating. You see, I didn’t respect myself, and I thought that finding someone to love me was more important than anything else. During these time-consuming romantic courtships, I was distancing myself further from my passions, my purpose and my true self.

Looking back, I had entered many of these relationships out of infatuation or loneliness. It was the fear of abandonment or the guilt of obligation that kept me in these relationships. I often got into and remained involved in relationships for the wrong reasons. I would convince myself that no one else out there would love me, and so I settled. Despite my surface appearance, I was deeply unhappy.
My freedom day came roughly two years ago. In a state of deep depression over unsatisfied relationships and through a growing despise of my gross dependencies on them, a miraculous understanding came to me and I experienced a moment of clarity. At that moment I made a vow to end the pain.

I started to devour as much material and wisdom as I could find on the topic of relationships, and studied (and continue to study) till now. I have come a long way from being that confused little boy, and have learned much about myself in the process. Most importantly I discovered that once I started to truly love myself, and to focus on my own inner peace and wellness, true love came looking for me. Hopefully..